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Hosted by Teresa Blemings


Date:

Oct. 27, 2025

Start time:

5:30 p.m. (EDT)

End time:

7:30 p.m. (EDT)

Status:

Forthcoming

Address:

Southwest Regional Library

3605 Shannon Road

Durham

North Carolina

27707

27707

United States

 

Free


About this Death Cafe

Future Meeting Dates:

October 27, 2025

Fourth Monday of each month unless otherwise stated.

 


About Teresa Blemings

Minutes of 9/22 Meeti

A couple topics that came up include:

How to be “dementia inclusive.” Susan shared a great resource: dementiainclusiveinc.org (“strengthening community accountability to promote inclusive supports and services for people living with dementia and their care partners”)

The impact language can have on attitudes towards death or types of death, for example saying “committed suicide” v “died by suicide.”

The idea that many people may fear living more than they do dying. This was further explained by how many people fear pain or disability and the decline before death more than they actually fear death itself.

Upcoming Event at the Main Durham County Library:

Final Trip: Psychedelics For Living & Dying

Wednesday, October 22nd   6 pm- 7:30 pm

In this deeply moving and eye-opening talk, Matt Zemon explores how psychedelic medicines are transforming not only how we heal, but how we live and die. Drawing from groundbreaking clinical research, personal stories, and his acclaimed TEDx talk, Matt guides audiences through the emotional, spiritual, and relational potential of psychedelic experiences, especially at the end of life. Whether confronting terminal illness, navigating grief, or seeking meaning in the face of mortality, this presentation offers a hopeful new paradigm: one where introspection, connection, and awe become accessible even in our final chapters. With warmth, clarity, and reverence, Matt illuminates how psychedelics can help us live more fully, and die more peacefully.

Register here: https://durhamcountylibrary.libcal.com/event/14879220 

Book Suggestions:

Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind, 

by Shunryu Suzuki

“The Zen master explains the

practice, nature, and basic attitudes of Zen meditation.” 

All the Way to the River: Love, Loss, and Liberation, by Elizabeth Gilbert

In 2000, Elizabeth Gilbert met Rayya. They became friends, then best friends, then inseparable. When tragedy entered their lives, the truth was finally laid bare: The two were in love. They were also a pair of addicts, on a collision course toward catastrophe.

 

No Cure for Being Human (And Other Truths I Need to Hear), Kate Bowler

Kate Bowler believed that life was a series of unlimited choices, only to find that she was stuck in a cancerous body at age 35. In her instant New York Times bestselling book, No Cure for Being Human, Kate searches for a way forward as she mines the wisdom (and absurdity) of our modern “best life now” advice industry, which offers us exhausting positivity, trying to convince us that we can out-eat, out-learn and out-perform our humanness. With dry wit and unflinching honesty, she grapples with her cancer diagnosis, her ambition, and her faith and searches for some kind of peace with her limitations in a culture that says that anything is possible.

Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey Into the Afterlife, Eben Alexander

An exploration of near-death experiences

 

Stiff: The Curious Life of Human Cadavers, Mary Roach

For 2,000 years, cadavers -- some willingly, some unwittingly -- have been involved in science's boldest strides and weirdest undertakings. Stiff is an oddly compelling, often hilarious exploration of the strange lives of our bodies postmortem.

Lincoln in the Bardo, George Saunders

Unfolding in a graveyard over the course of a single night, narrated by a dazzling chorus of voices, Lincoln in the Bardo is a literary experience unlike any other—for no one but Saunders could conceive it.

Five Days at Memorial, Sheri Fink

After Hurricane Katrina struck and power failed, amid rising floodwaters and heat, exhausted staff at Memorial Medical Center designated certain patients last for rescue. Months later, a doctor and two nurses were arrested and accused of injecting some of those patients with life-ending drugs.

 

Documentary

Love Has Won: The Cult of Mother of God” A documentary on HBO. This link is to a NYTimes review

 

 
 
 
 
 
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